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Road trip: sands, stalagmites and snow in New Mexico

New Mexico is the stuff that road trip dreams are made of. Long stretches of lunar-like landscapes with distant peaks that always feel slightly out of reach, the kind of warm heat that you want to sink into and stay in a while. It’s a place for the adventurous, yes, but also the laid-back. Perfect for a solitary long weekend or a weeklong trip with a friend or partner. 

White Sands National Park

White Sands National Park

White Sands National Park visitor center

White Sands National Park visitor center

I started my trip in Albuquerque, which in pre-covid, fairytale times was serviced by daily nonstop flights on Jetblue from JFK. While the state has started opening up, not all parks are yet open, so be sure to check status before heading out. I drove south from Albuquerque, towards White Sands National Park, passing by the interestingly named town of Truth or Consequences, which is also home to a number of natural hot springs, followed by a classic breakfast of eggs, bacon, and French toast at Sugies Diner in Las Cruces. I arrived at White Sands National Park in the early afternoon and explored as the sky slowly turned from bright blue to deeper purple and pink as the evening crept in and the sun slowly began to set. It’s a place you’ll want to linger, yes, and plan your return.

A selfie moment at White Sands

A selfie moment at White Sands

The sands get their white colour from gypsum crystals - the largest such dunefield on earth. Formed 7,000-10,000 years ago from selenite crystals that over time eroded into gypsum, White Sands National Park is today occasionally subject to closure, as it’s completely surrounded by the White Sands Missile Range. It’s certainly one of the most alien landscapes I’ve ever seen, and it’s easy to park your car at one of many stopping points in the park and quickly get lost in the dunes (be sure to bring plenty of water and know how to make your way back to your car). The deep blue outline of the San Andres range contrasts with the stark white wind patterns etched into the dunes, broken every so often by the thin lines of a determined desert plant. I experienced several dune stages: an initial liberating exploration marked by the sheer pleasure of running fresh tracks and rolling in the sand to feel its warmth; a secondary, more productive phase that entailed resurrecting childhood gymnastics moves; finally, a contemplative phase during which I sat in place, jotting down stray thoughts and having deeper conversations with friends and family in faraway places over the phone. 

White Sands National Park

White Sands National Park

White Sands National Park

White Sands National Park

White Sands National Park

White Sands National Park

I would happily have lingered longer, but I’d booked a motel just outside Carlsbad for the night, and a longer drive through the Lincoln National Forest (during which it snowed!) still awaited me. I’d recommend staying in the area if you’ve got more time, but I really enjoyed arriving to Carlsbad Caverns National Park the next morning just before opening, which allowed me to be the first person to enter that day. Combined with a New York City walking speed, this meant I had a good 15-20 minutes alone in the depths of the caverns before any other visitors caught up to interrupt the slow dripping sounds echoing within the cave system. Much of the system is inaccessible to visitors, and the open part unfortunately has ropes and clearly-marked walking paths, which take away from what otherwise might feel closer to nature. It’s still very much worth a visit, especially if you can get there before the crowds. 

Stalagmites and stalactites at Carlsbad Caverns National Park

Stalagmites and stalactites at Carlsbad Caverns National Park

Carlsbad Caverns National Park

Carlsbad Caverns National Park

Driving north towards Santa Fe, I passed by Roswell, whose claim to fame is the “UFO” crash in 1947 (the UFO in question was actually a U.S. Air Force weather balloon), and which now houses a UFO museum and research center. As I approached Vaughn, the landscape became increasingly desolate, with an occasional shuttered gas station or motel that appeared to date back to the 1950s. It’s the kind of place where time has stopped, and most people simply pass through, but as I think back on my trip, those memories of the afternoon desert sun shining on a place fallen out of favour linger. 

Musicians in downtown Santa Fe

Musicians in downtown Santa Fe

Kakawa Chocolate House, Santa Fe

Kakawa Chocolate House, Santa Fe

I reached Santa Fe in the early evening, checking in to the Drury Plaza Hotel, for which I’d found an amazing rate online. It was a bit too chilly to use the rooftop pool, but I happily settled by the roaring fireplace in the lounge with a complimentary gin & tonic and light bites from the hotel’s free daily happy hour. Afterwards, I strolled through town, stumbling upon some live music, and picking up snacks and wine at La Casa Sena wine shop. I also enjoyed sampling some of Gruet’s delicious sparkling wines at their Santa Fe tasting room, and for dessert, Kakawa Chocolate house is unbeatable. Their hot chocolate elixir is some of the best I’ve ever had, and it’s impossible to leave without sampling some of their handmade chocolates. 

The following day, I set out early for the 2 hour drive to Taos for a day of skiing. The conditions at the mountain can be hit or miss depending on the snowfall, but the terrain is still exciting. After a few runs, I grew tired of the quaint, slow lift chairs that are in need of an upgrade - time truly does feel like it runs more slowly. 

Skiing at Taos

Skiing at Taos

Skiing at Taos

Skiing at Taos

En route back to Santa Fe, I passed through a number of picturesque towns, including Arroyo Seco, which features a few small gift shops. Should you have more time, further west lies Carson National Forest, home to more stunning landscapes, including the area around Abiquiu, from where Georgia O’Keeffe drew inspiration. As mine was a shorter trip, I had to settle for checking out some of her art at the small but excellently curated Georgia O’Keeffe museum in downtown Santa Fe. The more I travel, the more I like to give myself a reason to go back to a place I really enjoyed to which I might not otherwise pay another visit. So, New Mexico, I’ll be back!

Where to eat & drink

Sugies Diner, Las Cruces

Gruet’s tasting room, Santa Fe

Kakawa Chocolate house, Santa Fe

La Casa Sena, Santa Fe

Where to stay

Drury Plaza Hotel, Santa Fe

Paintings at the Georgia O’Keeffe museum in Santa Fe

Paintings at the Georgia O’Keeffe museum in Santa Fe

City escapes: Block Island, RI

A few hours away from NYC, a train and ferry ride away, lies the hiply cute Block Island. With its Victorian houses and large expanses of green sloping into sand dunes and stretches of beach, Block Island feels somewhat like a hideaway for New England’s elite. But its serene exterior belies its down to earth, casual vibe that makes it so easy to love.

Frederick Benson Town beach, Block Island

Frederick Benson Town beach, Block Island

Several ferry routes service Block Island: New London, CT (easiest for those coming from NYC), Montauk, NY, Fall River, MA, Newport, RI and Point Judith, RI (easiest for those coming from Boston). You can also fly in from Westerly, RI on New England Airlines. Amtrak runs frequent train service to New London, CT, from which the ferry is a 5 min walk. Otherwise, you can take a train to the nearest Amtrak and request an Uber or Lyft to the ferry or airport.

The beach in front of Avonlea by the Sea

The beach in front of Avonlea by the Sea

The beach in front of Avonlea by the Sea

The beach in front of Avonlea by the Sea

Book a B&B or hotel within walking distance of New Shoreham, Block Island’s main port town, so that you have no need for a car or taxi upon arrival. Instead, rent a bike from Aldo’s Bikes & Mopeds or Island Moped & Bike. At just six miles between its northernmost and southernmost tips, Block Island is the perfect place to leave your car behind and bike, rollerblade or walk. We stayed at the charming Avonlea by the Sea, which includes a home-cooked breakfast by the resident Sabrina, as well as wine and snacks every afternoon, including Block Island barnacle cookies. After settling in, we headed to Ballard’s for drinks directly on the beach. The food is skippable—for better food options, take a short stroll to the The 1661 Inn (which also features a curious animal farm that you can visit) or the Spring House Hotel (both also higher end options to stay at night). Seafood is the local specialty on the island, with oysters, shrimp and haddock typically a good bet. Afterwards, we danced to the live band playing covers at Captain Nick’s, perhaps the liveliest watering hole on the island. Next door is also the reliable Poor People’s Pub with plenty of outdoor seating.

By day, we followed Spring St. down to the South East lighthouse, built in 1874 and moved to its current location in 1993 due to erosion. Designated a U.S. National Historic Landmark, it’s a quick stop en route to the striking Mohegan Bluffs, set below several staircases from the main road. From here, we continued along the Mohegan Trail, which curves northward towards the airport. Should you arrive or depart by plane, the lively Bethany’s Airport Diner is a great spot to linger over a drink as you watch small planes take off.

Mohegan Bluffs

Mohegan Bluffs

Further north lies Legion Park, where we sampled delicious fresh unsweetened lemonade and snacks from local vendors at the weekly Saturday’s farmers market. Dead Eye Dick’s was perfect for a sunny lunch outside: the local oysters and bloody mary were a great combination, and they serve two delicious varieties of clam chowder. Should you desire a nap on the beach after lunch, nearby crescent-shaped Frederick Benson Town Beach is the place to be. For fewer crowds, we rode further up to Mansion Beach, bordered by untamed sand dunes and tidal pools. Bring your own drinks and snacks, as there are no facilities.

Mansion beach

Mansion beach

The Block Island North Lighthouse, accessible via a pebbly beach path, marks the northernmost point of the island. The winds here are stronger, so be sure to keep energy in reserve for the ride back to New Shoreham. For those who are meditation minded, the Sacred Labyrinth is a serene stop en route—it was completely empty when we stopped by.

The Sacred Labyrinth

The Sacred Labyrinth

Sunset, Block Island

Sunset, Block Island

Should you have time for hiking, Rodman’s Hollow or the Hodge Family Wildlife Preserve offer a number of options. Bring mosquito repellent, as the trails can get buggy. Afterwards, treat yourself to a dinner overlooking the town beach at the lively Beachead: we enjoyed the tuna poke, fish and chips, and the baked haddock as we listened to the waves crashing across the road. Sunset colours lit up the sky and reflected back onto the wet sand as we agreed we’d be back. Soon.

Where to stay

Avonlea by the Sea

The 1661 Inn

Spring House Hotel

Where to eat & drink

Dead Eye Dick’s

Beachead

Bethany’s Airport Diner

Ballard’s for drinks

Captain Nick’s for live music & dancing